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Thursday, August 7, 2014

Argument

哎。。又跟父母吵架了。

因为机票的事情。最近父母希望我可以去BRISBANE走一趟。刚好他们的朋友的儿子也想去,所以就讲好一起打机票一起去。

昨晚,就在他们的陪同下,一起打机票。来回两个星期。讲实话,我本来没有很想去那么久的。。。因为尴尬啊。。。

结果今天早上被妈妈大骂一段,在咖啡店叻!她讲,为什么要去那么久。。住在人家家这么久,不会不好意思麽?

我说啊。。为什么昨晚在确定机票前阻止?不是我要去那么久,不是我提议的。是人家阿姨讲的。我那里敢。。。结果被骂没有主见。当然没有主见,不是我的钱,我凭什么可以有主见?我那里敢?

讲实话,我那里都不想去啊。都还没赚钱,根本没有想花钱。我那里有那个心情去玩啊?现在,反而被骂,还不是为了钱。

对了。为什么大人有话都不会好好讲?为什么都要那么大声讲话?为什么都要以好像责备的态度讲话?为什么讲话都要这么快?



人,有错时,永远都要怪别人。

Sunday, July 27, 2014

Sigh...

Here I am,

Graduated since December 2013 and unemployed.

Life sucks at the moment.

Everything is so far away... its unreachable.

Kinda Hopeless now. Dont know where I am heading...

Half year through 2014. My 2014 Sucks.


Sunday, October 13, 2013

Hey Bitch

I said: Hi! Good morning!
You decided to turn away.
I am well aware that you are neither blind nor deaf.
Bitch you are RUDE. but u knw what?
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May God NOT Bless you!
I know I said it before but
SHAME on you!

Friday, October 4, 2013

What A Bitch (W.A.B.)

Today I messaged my housemate if she could remove her hair in the shower plug after shower. Then this bitch become so defensive and replied saying that she would do it if I do mine!

Dafuq! Bitch! I said it because I clean her hair in the showers! You wouldn't believe how it looks like after she showered! Its like a cancer patient losing hairs and the hairs are EVERYWHERE! on the WALL, FLOOR and most ridiculously, in the SHOWER TRAP! In fact, I even bought 2 chemical drain cleaners to clear the clog!

Here ULTRA LONG screen capture of what the bitch responded. Now that when I looked back, its like an argument btwn 2 bitches. but fcked that. I m posting this anyway. Me vs the housemate





Fark u Lady. Shame on u for being a PASTOR'S daughter with NO temper management! WHO started the argument? Who was rude first? Well. yeah! The christians, always act like holy angel! Yeh dont talk to me about Christians are human too and can make mistakes too. Then what makes Christian so special? At the end of the day, you are still the same outside church. So why bother spending time in church acting likka angel. I bet your god already see these outside. 

And for F*rk sake! How can this kind of girl can always have a boyfriend? Is this what a guy likes? A girl who throw tantrum to others without an explainable reason? A girls with a room so messy that you can never see floor, looking like after tsunami disaster?! A girl who doesnt clean up after shower? A girl who left her undergarments outside drying for weeks?



Monday, September 16, 2013

What Interviewers Wish They Could Tell Every Job Candidate

I came across this in my LinkedIn profile and I think this is quite useful for those who are graduating and looking to apply for a job.

This article is written by Jeff Haden, a Ghostwritter and Speaker, Inc. Magazine Columnist. The reason I post it here is so that I can read this again in future (just in case I lost track of where I found this) and thus an extra copy here.
In the best interviews, job candidates say a lot and interviewers very little – after all, the interview is about the candidate, not the interviewer.
But there are a few things interviewers would like to tell job candidates well before the interview starts.
1. I want you to be likeable.
Obvious? Sure, but also critical. I want to work with people I like and who in turn like me.
So: I want you to smile. I want you to make eye contact, sit forward in your chair, and be enthusiastic. The employer-employee relationship truly is a relationship -- and that relationship starts with the interview (if not before.)
A candidate who makes a great first impression and sparks a real connection instantly becomes a big fish in a very small short-list pond. You may have solid qualifications, but if I don't think I'll enjoy working with you, I'm probably not going to hire you.
Life is too short.
2. I don’t want you to immediately say you want the job.
Oh, I do want you to want the job -- but not before you really know what the job entails. I may need you to work 60-hour weeks, or travel 80% of the time, or report to someone with less experience than you... so sit tight for a bit.
No matter how much research you've done, you can't know you want the job until you know everything possible about the job.
3. I want you to stand out....
A sad truth of interviewing is that later I often don't recall, unless I refer to my notes, a significant amount about some of the candidates. (Unfair? Sure. Reality? Absolutely.)
The more people I interview for a job and the more spread out those interviews, the more likely I am to remember a candidate by impressions rather than by a long list of facts.
So when I meet with staff to discuss potential candidates I might initially refer to someone as, "the guy with the bizarre stainless steel briefcase," or "the woman who does triathlons," or "the gentleman who grew up in Lichtenstein."
In short, I may remember you by "hooks" – whether flattering or unflattering – so use that to your advantage. Your hook could be your clothing, or an outside interest, or an unusual fact about your upbringing or career. Better yet your hook could be the project you pulled off in half the expected time or the huge sale you made.
Instead of letting me choose, give me one or two notable ways to remember you.
4. ... but not for being negative.
There's no way I can remember everything you say. But I will remember sound bites, especially the negative ones – like the candidates who complain, without prompting, about their current employer, their coworkers, or their customers.
So if for example you hate being micro-managed, instead say you're eager to earn more responsibility and authority. I get there are reasons you want a new job but I want to hear why you want my job instead of why you're desperate to escape your old job.
And keep in mind I'm well aware our interview is like a first date. I know I'm getting the best possible version of "you." So if you whine and complain and grumble now... I know you'll be a real treat to be around in a few months.
5. I want you to ask lots of questions about what really matters to you...
I need to know whether I should hire you, but just as importantly I need you to make sure my job is a good fit for you.
So I want you to ask lots of questions: What I expect you to accomplish early on, what attributes make our top performers outstanding, what you can do to truly drive results, how you'll be evaluated… all the things that matter to you and to me and my business.
You know what makes work meaningful and enjoyable to you. I don't. There's no other way to really know whether you want the job unless you ask questions.
6. ... but only if the majority of those questions relate to real work.
I know you want a positive work-life balance. Still, save all those questions about vacation sign-up policies and whether it's okay to take an extra half hour at lunch every day if you also stay a half hour late and whether I've considered setting up an in-house childcare facility because that would be really awesome for you and your family.
First let's find out if you're the right person for the job, and whether the tasks, responsibilities, duties, etc. are right for you.
Then we can talk about the rest.
7. I love when you bring a "project."
I expect you to do a little research about my company. That’s a given.
To really impress me, use the research you’ve done to describe how you will hit the ground running and contribute right away – the bigger the impact the better. If you bring a specific skill, show how I can leverage that skill immediately.
Remember how I see it: I have to pay your salary starting day one, so I'd love to see an immediate return on that investment starting day one.
8. At the end I want you to ask for the job... and I want to know why.
By the end of the interview you should have a good sense of whether you want the job. If you need more information, say so and let's figure out how to get what you need to make a decision.
If you don't need more information, do what great salespeople do and ask for the job.
I'll like the fact you asked. I want you to really want the job -- but I also want to know why you want the job. So tell me why: You thrive in an unsupervised role, or you love working with multiple teams, or you like frequent travel.
Ask me for the job and prove to me, objectively, that it's a great fit for you.
9. I want you to follow up... especially if it's genuine.
Every interviewer appreciates a brief follow-up note. If nothing else, saying you enjoyed meeting me and are happy to answer any other questions is nice.
But "nice" may not separate you from the pack.
What I really like – and remember – is when you follow up based on something we discussed. Maybe we talked about data collection techniques and you send me information about a set of tools you strongly recommend. Maybe we talked about quality and you send me a process checklist you developed that I could adapt to use in my company. Or maybe we both like cycling, so you send me a photo of you on your bike in front of the sign at the top of the Col du Tourmalet (and I'm totally jealous.)
The more closely you listened during the interview, the easier it is to think of ways to follow up in a natural and unforced way.
Remember, we're starting a relationship -- and even the most professional of relationships are based on genuine interactions.

Saturday, September 14, 2013

Clubbing in Melbourne for the first time

Had a chance to go clubbing with my brother and his friend during the trip. It was an unexpected visit. I did not have my clubbing gears with me =( No heels, no dress, no appropriate makeup. Boohoo.... So I spent one day shopping for dress. No luck on the dresses and heels (I guess I am pretty skimpy and picky). At last, I decided to just get a black peplum top to pair with my pleather shorts. I got my top from myers, at the clearance section LOL. I am actually pretty happy with my finding. Then I got myself a necklace since my outfit is pretty bland. I had to rush back home for touch-up a bit and refresh myself for the buffet dinner I booked weeks earlier at Hollywood International Buffet. 


Anyway... The buffet went well. I had loads of oysters and mussels just because I love them. Yummm.. Then we rush back to our place where my brother change and rest a bit before the pre-drink at friend's. The friend were pretty hyped when we reached there. We had some beers and wine then off we go the the club (by train LOL) We went to the Eve bar. The entrance fee is pretty expensive comparing to Perth. I do not recall paying up to 22 dollars just for the entrance fee....    

Brother with his new friends =)

Brother's hyped friends

terrible pic of me with mah brother

Me with da brother
I had makeup on my face since 9am in the morning and did not have time to redo or retouch them throughout the day. My face was pretty fcked up. Gosh. I feel so embarrassed when I looked at all these pictures. I wasn't expecting clubbing and thus no clubbing make-up stuff... no eyeshadow and foundation primers and thus all the fugly smudging eyeshadow and eyeliner.. duh..... and don't remind me of oily unorganised hair! I had absolutely no time to take a shower and change =( I should keep my hair long so that it becomes more manageable. 

Uggghhhhh..... I still feel disgusted by how my face and hair looked like that night.... That reminds me, I need to get a proper haircut. *gosh this is a tough job* 

Thursday, September 12, 2013

I am BACK to this Island =)

almost 5 days ago...

I have been procrastinating instead of doing my assignments and stuff. I started reading my blog and it make me think "gosh! where have my time been?" I dont care if anyone is reading my blog. Honestly, I hope noone or at least those who read is no one in my life. But anyway, reading my past story reminds me of a lot of things, fun, bad and good memories from my past.

Thus, I decide to try my best to keep myself update more often here. So that in future, when I need to procrastinate, I know where to go. LOL

Anyways, Melbourne trip was fun but a little bit bored just because I felt lazy to go around. Parent is coming over to Tassie for my graduation in December. They also kindly bought tickets for my younger brother and sister to Melbourne =) meaning that 4 of us (dah Ting sibling) are travelling around in Melbourne for good 4 days before reunite with Mum and Dad for my graduation =) Yay! I can't wait already!!

I did a little bit of socializing, shopping, clubbing, and went buffet dinner at Hollywood International Buffet at Burwood Hwy. It was a relax trip and I am very happy with it. The weather was crappy though. I arrive Melbourne with very windy sunny day at 27c but the weather turned to cold windy rainy starting from 2nd day of my trip. FML

So far I think I like Melbourne and I think I gained weight during the trip. But oh well...